Success is fairly easy to pinpoint during our working years. At least, in terms of being able to quantify factors such as financial, career and family. But in life after work, the idea of success must be adjusted.
Chapter X isn’t about climbing a corporate ladder or other markers of “success.”
No, we need to rethink how we see success. Mastery in Chapter X is a different reality—and needs a different definition.
For instance, I look at the activities that captivate me; let’s say my reengagement with music. I don’t see success as becoming the great horn player I once envisioned. To me, success is having enough ability to play in ensembles, whether it is a community orchestra, local jazz band or something else.
I also pin the idea of success to enjoyment rather than strictly by achievement. My warm-up includes long tones, lip flexibility and scales that are neither exciting nor fun, but I don’t dread them or suffer that part of practice.
It’s a success, so far, in my book.
How do you define success? Does it challenge your sensibilities? Let me know your thoughts.
