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October 27, 2020

What state do you live in?

No, I don’t mean, physical location—we’re talking about your state of mind, your state of being. According to the research, your health can be negatively impacted if your state of mind is negative, depressed, sad, despondent, lost or without purpose. Here’s a link to a…
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October 25, 2020

Eggshells and breath-holding

Transitions, whether global or personal, can bring feelings of dread, uncertainty and fear. It’s like walking on eggshells, waiting for something to happen. It’s far from comfortable. In fact, you can even feel it on your skin, that certain unease. Try releasing your breath. Take…
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October 24, 2020

Living with discomfort

Admitting one’s flaws is rarely comfortable. But one of the goals of this project/community/movement is to get out of the comfort zone and live with the discomfort. After all, discomfort isn’t fatal. So here I go…another venture into my ‘discomfort zone.’ I admit that one…
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October 22, 2020

Who am I now and how did I get here?

I watched my son argue his point over the holiday table. He spoke with assurance, confidence and absolute comfort with his position. He’s smart and quick with words, typically leaving me in the dust. His volume was a bit raised, trying to emphasize his point.…
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October 20, 2020

A thought on change

“Change will not come if we wait for some other person, or if we wait for some other time. We are the ones we've been waiting for. We are the change that we seek.” Barack Obama Think about that. We are the problem—but we are…
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October 18, 2020

Incrementalism

After being sidelined with a minor but irritating injury to my elbow that prevented me from lifting weights for a good solid month, I told my trainer I was ready to lift. She handed me a pair of 10 pound dumbbells. “Ok, start there,” she…
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October 17, 2020

No pockets in the shroud

I recently had the privilege of interviewing Professor Meir Statman on my podcast. Among the very wonderful stories, he used the phrase, “there are no pockets in the shroud.” We’ve all heard and probably used the phrase, “you can’t take it with you.” But, for…
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October 15, 2020

Why we need to get back to nurturing our sense of childlike curiosity as adults

Sometimes the transition into the next chapter is completely out of our control. What happens next after you’re blindsided by an unexpected retirement? Today’s guest shares what it’s like to learn lessons the tough way. At age 57, Carl Schecter suddenly found himself retired—and not…
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