Welcome to the X.

X as in the unique mix of decisions and experiences that will bring you meaning and joy in your next chapter. Think practical tools, a little inspiration and more than a few stories of those who’ve jumped the hurdle.
LongevityMastery
February 25, 2020

Shocks

When something dramatic happens in your life, it leaves a shock of awareness. Things like getting your first job or quitting your first job, first love, birth of your first child, death of a parent or loved one, divorce or buying your first home. Anything…
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Meaning
February 23, 2020

Denial

Denial is not a river in Egypt. You can tell yourself that you’re the same as you’ve always been, but that’s just nonsense. You can say anything and live in denial that the train of youth has left the station. You are where you are…
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Meaning
February 22, 2020

Vision fix

Throughout your life, you set your sights on your goals. You learn the ropes and climb higher and higher. At some point, the climb concludes and you’ve reached the top of your trajectory. Your vision has been clear from the beginning of your journey. But…
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MasteryMeaning
February 20, 2020

You have ONE job

At the heart of all things is the word connect. During each phase of life, you learn to connect: with people, with knowledge, with job opportunities. All in an effort to make more money, support yourself and family and to achieve more. There’s nothing wrong…
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Meaning
February 18, 2020

Getting past the hype

“Buzz” or hype is created around a product, place or experience to enhance its allure. The restaurant  everyone is talking about. The style everyone is buying. The car that everyone is driving. The vacation that everyone is taking. As social animals, we like being included.…
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MeaningMoney
February 18, 2020

Real wealth management

Wealth can be defined in a wider range beyond financial assets. Without stretching the point too far, it is easy to look at your wealth as: wisdom, experience, time, service to others, etc. In addition to those ideas, I see my ‘wealth’ as my children,…
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MasteryRelationships
February 9, 2020

Judgment vs. judgment

You use your experience, knowledge and ability to make decisions—that’s judgment. Looking at yourself or others with a critical eye is also judgment. You can use judgment (the former) to make decisions. The other judgment (the latter) is a waste of time and detracts from…
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