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Imagine a man who truly wants to connect with his partner. He carefully picks his words, hoping to create that closeness. But somehow, it all falls flat. Frustration builds in his partner, yet he can’t quite put his finger on what’s going wrong. Why does…

Over the last few years, I’ve become more of an observer of my behaviors and habits. Certainly more than at any other time in my life. I see this period as a kind of “sorting.” What do I need to hold on to, and what…

I sat in the dentist’s chair this morning, listening to the dental assistant bemoan the end of summer and how unhappy she was about the arrival of fall and cooler weather. She asked how I felt about it, and I shared my love for autumn…

Life can be either a raging river or a meandering stream. Sometimes it’s filled with fury, excitement, engagement, and adventure. Other times, it’s calm, peaceful, relaxing, and slow. Both states make up our lives, and both are needed to find balance. As human nature goes,…

I love asking questions. I equally love hearing the answers and the perspectives hidden within the words. It’s probably one of the things I like best about hosting the Chapter X podcast. Here are a few questions to ponder: How do you feel about your…

Imagine the possibilities when men come together in a supportive atmosphere. In the Chapter X community, I’ve seen firsthand how this freedom allows us to be our true selves—and that’s where real growth happens.  Today, I’m excited to introduce you to Bodhi Aldridge, a man…

The other day, I received an email containing a variety of stories to browse. One that caught my eye was a Reader's Digest article titled, “How to Make Friends as an Adult—and Keep Them.” Certainly, a topic that many have pondered. The gist of the…

Those of you who have been following my writing over the last several years know that I have a granddaughter, Laila, who was born at 1lb 6oz almost four years ago. Thankfully, she is healthy and wonderful and one of my three shining stars! We…