Welcome to the X.

X as in the unique mix of decisions and experiences that will bring you meaning and joy in your next chapter. Think practical tools, a little inspiration and more than a few stories of those who’ve jumped the hurdle.
Meaning
July 5, 2022

A Quote that Blew My Mind

I recently subscribed to The Daily Stoic after my daughter-in-law brought it to my attention.  Today’s quote stopped me in my tracks. “Think of the life you have lived until now as over and, as a dead man, see what’s left as a bonus and…
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July 3, 2022

Reflection and Gratitude

My renewed involvement in music has been revelatory in many ways. I think about my life in music many years ago. It was all about striving to be the “best” and while I loved performing, it was a mixed bag of anxiety and pressure.  My…
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July 2, 2022

Socialization

During our recent Chapter X Zoom get-together, we were joined by Dr. David Bernstein, a retired gerontologist, author and new participant in our community. He talked about the importance of socialization as a means of navigating a full, healthy and meaningful next chapter. Harry Scheyer…
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June 30, 2022

Taking Charge

Have you ever had a lifelong dream? As you grow older, you might wonder if it’s time to let that old dream go, but the truth is, age doesn’t matter for most goals. If you still feel that spark within yourself, it might be time…
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June 28, 2022

Practicing “Being” – Part Four

Yesterday was a busy and tiring day. I was up early to pack for a week away. After loading the car with food, clothes, computers, and dog, we made our way to the Berkshires. It was a three-hour-drive that, while not grueling, required concentration.  By…
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June 26, 2022

Flawsome

During a recent coaching session, we were talking about the flaws that humans possess. You know, like being judgmental, impatient, self-critical, negative mindsets… like that. The conversation then turned to the fact that we all have areas in our lives where we shine and where…
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June 25, 2022

Bears on the Street Doesn’t Mean Tears on the Sheet

I am sure that the downward trend in the stock market hasn’t escaped your notice. The question is: to what degree does it impact your life in retirement? And how do you deal with the internal turmoil and fear that radiates from your statement to…
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June 21, 2022

Practicing “Being” – Part Three

I’m trying to focus on the practice of “being” instead of “doing.” Admittedly, I’m not very good at it, but with intention, it becomes a bit easier. For example, I went for a walk this morning, intending to get some exercise and a mindful experience…
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