Welcome to the X.

We have no difficulty knowing who we are during our work life. It’s afterward that we can feel challenged. Identity is one of those things that tells the world who we are: the title, the initials that signal our status. It’s something we often cleave…

Well, I really DID want to find a time for us to gather before the end of the year. That being said, I can’t seem to find the time, so I regretfully will have to defer until we can reconvene in 2026. I wish you…

This autumn seems to have stirred up the local squirrel population. I’ve noticed them as I walk through the neighborhood, doing their squirrel thing of gathering food before winter. They seem far busier than in previous years. One thing is abundantly clear: they go about…

If you’ve been following, you know that I struggle with creating a meaningful meditation practice. The responses I received from you were wonderful, offering ideas and suggestions to help me get over myself and my self-imposed limitations. Recently, I had a Thai massage with someone…

My November 1 blog, “Lost and Found,” sparked many comments from readers. I always appreciate the feedback (positive or negative), but these comments seemed different. They suggested I go deeper and perhaps make this a topic of exploration at an upcoming Chapter X get-together. As…

My three-year-old granddaughter placed the scanning thermometer to her head and pushed the button. After the beep, she turned it around to show me her temperature.  I was really impressed with her ability and dexterity, and only the fact that we were on FaceTime prevented…

During our working life, purpose was pretty clear: work hard, become successful, and build financial security. But during your Chapter X, defining purpose can be a bit trickier, especially since there are no metrics like bonuses, promotions, or accolades to acknowledge the success of your…

At our last Zoom get-together, there was an intriguing conversation about what it looks like to have a meditation practice. Some men spoke of a very disciplined approach. Others described a more contemplative style, rather than a traditional “on the cushion” practice.  And then there…