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December 29, 2020

More and less

I’ve been thinking about what I want more of and what I want less of as I move into Chapter X: So I started a list… More: Creative writing—I started a novel that I just can’t seem to finish. Music—regular practice hours on my trumpet…
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December 27, 2020

Choices

Our choices, as we age, in some ways become greater and in others less so. You can choose if you wish to live in the shadow of past successes and glory—or not. You can choose what habits you wish to change or start—or not. You…
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December 26, 2020

Name calling

If you are a consumer of news, you know that name-calling has been all the rage for the last five years. It’s become a potent weapon used to cower opposition on both ends of the political spectrum. “Moron.” “Fraud.” “Liar.” It’s a throwback to elementary…
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December 23, 2020

Podcast – Mark Alyn and Servet Hasan

It’s funny how quickly life becomes dull and unfulfilling when we don’t have things to look forward to each day. But what if the solution was to stop waiting for good things to happen to us? In this episode, my guests will share how we…
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December 22, 2020

A sense of urgency

I live with the sound of a ticking clock in my head. As far back as I can remember I’ve lived with a sense of urgency. I remember my frustration at not being able to throw a curveball and working on it over and over…
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December 20, 2020

Generativity

The Merriam-Webster dictionary defines generativity as “a concern for people besides self and family that usually develops during middle age. Especially: a need to nurture and guide younger people and contribute to the next generation—used in psychology by Erik Erikson.” In our society that is…
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December 19, 2020

Bringing yourself forward

Our past informs our present and our future. Our experiences—positive or negative—reinforce our decisions when transition is upon us. Think about this for a moment. When we get positive results, we tend to continue making decisions based on those results. When we get negative results…
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December 17, 2020

You’re going to die

You’re going to die—in fact, we’re all going to die! If you take a moment or two to ponder this, consider the following: What will you regret? What are you leaving behind? Thinking about one’s own demise is not a happy thought. But it certainly…
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