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“Recognize that ‘unlearning’ is the highest form of learning.” - Rumi “We must let go of the life we have planned, so as to accept the one that is waiting for us.” - Joseph Campbell “Wellbeing is realized by small steps, but is truly no…

Each stage of life is focused on a different purpose. Think about it. In our formative years, the idea of purpose might look like getting our parents’ approval, being recognized as a good athlete or maybe becoming a top student. During our years working, our…

For me, one of the biggest challenges of this transition into life after my career is my ability to put my change of pace into a different perspective. For as long as I can remember, I woke up every workday (which was sometimes 7 days…

If you’ve been following my posts, you’ll know that after a 50-year hiatus (more like a 50-year escape) from playing the trumpet, I've recently picked the instrument back up.   During my years of study, I was trained by classical musicians who drilled into me the…

We are often told to pursue our passions in our professional lives. From childhood and onward, we hear the familiar tune of advice like, “Do what you love,” when it comes to our career. Yet it’s rare to find people who’ve turned their passions into…

Everyone has a story. Everyone’s story is unique to their experience. Everyone has a lesson to share. I have learned so much over the last two years of presenting the Chapter X podcasts, and I hope you have enjoyed listening. If you would like to…

My definition of fun has evolved over the years.  As a child, fun was playing ball with friends and exploring the nearby woods. In college, fun was associated with social activities with friends and my then-girlfriend (now wife of 45 years).  As an adult, fun…

Recently, I listened to a friend of mine talk about his current life situation. His work pace is killing him. While he is passionate about it, he is being “forced” by circumstances (an impossible labor market) to do things he shouldn’t have to at this…