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Who Are You When No One Needs You? | Ep. 254

Oct 7, 2026
The first six months of retirement may be the easy part.
At first, there may be travel, projects, and long-awaited plans to fill the time. But once the dust settles, retirement can begin to feel very different.
Psychotherapist Austin Dowling joins me again on Chapter X to talk about what can surface after the initial transition. We explore loneliness, identity, self-reliance, and the challenge of adjusting habits that may have served us well throughout our careers.
We covered:
- Why loneliness often appears after the first few months of retirement
- How senior roles can make relationships feel increasingly transactional
- Why successful people may struggle to ask for help
- How over-scheduling can become another way to avoid discomfort
- How to adapt your career strengths instead of leaving them behind
Resources
Website: www.insighstudiotherapy.com
Email: austindowlingpsychotherapy@gmail.com
Phone: 347-454-2799
About Austin:
Austin Dowling is a New York-based psychotherapist and executive coach who helps professionals navigate career and personal roadblocks, anxiety, and lack of motivation. Originally from Ireland, he previously worked as a corporate attorney in Australia and China and held senior executive roles, including Global Head of Talent for an international investment bank.
