Episode 39 – Paula Span

Paula Span Smiling

June 30, 2021

From childcare provider to loving companion, being a grandparent means taking on many meaningful roles. If you’re a grandparent, the roles you play can make a huge difference in your grandchildren’s lives.

Today I’m joined by veteran journalist Paula Span, who writes the New Old Age and Generation Grandparent columns for the New York Times. Her latest work, The Bubbe Diaries, explores modern-day grandparenting through the latest research on child development — and her own experience of helping raise her young granddaughter.

After years of being a parent, the transition to grandparenthood can bring challenges and joy as you adjust to new expectations. That’s why I’m thrilled Paula is here to discuss the ever-changing and special role of grandparents within a family. 

In this episode, we covered:

  • The value of being a grandparent for finding new meaning and purpose
  • How to realistically manage your expectations as a grandparent 
  • Why Paula views grandparenting as a way to help her daughter out
  • What relationship men need to take action on before grandparenting
  • The ways we can become allies to our children in this new role
  • Physical health benefits (and challenges) of raising grandchildren

 

Links

The Bubbe Diaries by Paula Span

Generation Grandparent on The New York Times

The New Old Age on The New York Times