Winter in my New Jersey suburbs is a time when you don’t see as much wildlife as you would in other seasons. The deer, raccoons, wild turkeys, foxes and chipmunks are hiding. Other than the occasional blue jay, most birds have traveled to more hospitable climates.
I still see squirrels from time to time, but the snow geese and their prodigious appetites are plentiful. While driving the other day, I passed one of the local golf courses and noticed the snow geese blanketing the course. When I arrived home, I saw a solitary squirrel skittering up a tree, looking for something to eat.
It occurred to me that this comparison of two winter animals is a pretty good analogy. While squirrels are rarely seen in groups (other than two chasing each other), I’ve never seen a solitary snow goose.
There was something majestic and somewhat magical about seeing the field covered with this community of hungry animals (doubtless, the maintenance crew feel differently). They ate whatever grass or bits covered the area and when they were finished, they left as a group.
Squirrels on the other hand are solitary and scavenge for food alone. It seems like a lonely endeavor, regardless of their purposeful actions.
In this chapter of life, being part of a flock, at least for some of the time, is important to health and well-being. Social connections and relationships are vital. As a committed introvert, I also yearn for connections with others, sharing experiences and ideas. Finding the right balance is the key.
So, are you more of a squirrel or a snow goose?
