Welcome to the X.

One of the many challenges we must face as we transition from career to life after is the idea of identity. After all, we’ve devoted decades to imagining, building, shaping, and fortifying identities that center around how we wish to be seen. We’ve assembled the…

So you’ll probably think I’m nuts, but that’s okay. I’m used to it.  I woke up around 4 a.m. this morning. At the center of my thoughts was the idea that we live our lives like oysters. No, there were no thoughts of lemon wedges,…

With the “birthing” of my book, How to Craft Your Chapter X, I find myself in a whirlwind of thoughts and emotions. I am overjoyed to bring this into the world as a way of helping others—that makes me happy. I’m also experiencing fear and doubt…

For many men who grew up under the auspices of parents who taught that we were put on this earth to work, become successful, support our families, and rise to the top, self-love was not in the equation. Self-criticism was pretty high on the list.…

As I close in on the end of my fourth year since selling my firm, I’ve spent some time thinking about how my life has changed. One of the biggest changes is the pace of life. Looking back, for as long as I can recall,…

From our earliest existence, we face challenges that require us to grow beyond our current state of being. It’s no different in Chapter X. Of course, after devoting decades to honing and improving your skill sets, this shift can feel impossibly difficult. If you’re in…

We have no difficulty knowing who we are during our work life. It’s afterward that we can feel challenged. Identity is one of those things that tells the world who we are: the title, the initials that signal our status. It’s something we often cleave…

Well, I really DID want to find a time for us to gather before the end of the year. That being said, I can’t seem to find the time, so I regretfully will have to defer until we can reconvene in 2026. I wish you…