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It’s normal to think of failure as something bad, and indeed, in certain contexts, it is.  But failure, as we’ve learned from Thomas Edison, is often the step before success. Failure can be fertile ground for growth and learning. It can be the motivation for…

I hear men tell me they can’t think of anything that interests them. I hear them say they haven’t found activities that move them into action. I hear them say that unless they have a passion for something else, they’ll remain doing what they’ve always…

I can’t tell you what it was or where it came from, but the call to try pottery making was in my head. Perhaps it was the confluence of seeing artistically shaped pottery in a display case at a local museum. Or my current internal…

Like our bones that make up our skeleton, we need structure. Without it, we are… what, jellyfish? Yeah, pretty much. No disrespect to jellyfish or anything, but if given the choice, I’ll pass. We depend on structure. We raise our children with structure. We’ve led…

I don’t know about you, but I love to read. I have for as long as I can remember. Both of my parents were big readers.  In fact, my father, who was a schoolteacher, used to write book summaries on big index cards and keep…

Being stuck is no fun. It’s frustrating and debilitating, and life feels like it’s in slow motion. A sense of stuckness is common during transition. Feeling stuck is also common during times of transition. It’s a time of precarious “unknowing,” where you’re not quite sure…

Identity is a big thing, especially for high-performing men. We devote so much of our time, effort, ego, belief system, and energy to it. It’s not really our fault. It’s a product of the messages we heard growing up. “Be successful.” “Be the boss.” “Be…

I love tripping across quotes that just land perfectly in my brain, like fine chocolate on the tongue. Here are few for you to think about:    “One day you wake up and there won’t be any more time to do the things you’ve always…